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More Love: Building Love Maps
This month’s Love Series will help you with rediscovering love through a fun activity called Love Maps! Celebrating Valentine’s Day...
More Love: Open Relationships
As we are in the month of love, I want to talk about all different types of intimate relationships. There are couples, “throuples”,...
More Love: Adoptive Parents
When I first started this blog post I had a pretty straightforward idea of what it would look like. I was going to describe adoption as...
More Love: Accepting Influence
Think about the first big argument with your spouse. Can you even remember? Thinking back, was it absurd? I’m going to quickly share...
More Love: Marriage Reboot
Twenty-two. That’s how many years of marriage I have under my belt. I met my husband while I was a senior in high school. I can remember...
Fondness and Admiration
Although the holidays are over, we may be still riding the high of a new closeness that developed throughout the season towards our...
Feelings vs Thoughts
Have you ever wondered why it is so difficult to have a logical thought when you get angry? It’s almost like your brain is hijacked, and...
Client Questions, Part 2
As promised, here is the second installment of questions you wish you could ask you therapist, but may be afraid to. Let’s jump right in:...
Marriage Shouldn’t Be Fair
All you have to do to ruin your marriage is play fair. I have three kids. – I know this post is supposed to be about marriage, just hang...
5 Signs You’re Gonna Make It
As a couple’s therapist, one of the most difficult questions I am asked is “Are we going to make it?”. The beauty of relationships, and...
The Perfectionism Paradox
I remember the first time I submitted a blog for Amy Wine Counseling. It was an absolutely terrifying experience. Thoughts of “what if...
Questions You’ve Always Wanted to Ask Your Therapist: Part 1
Have you ever wanted to ask your therapist something, but were afraid to do so? Well, have no more fear. Over the next couple of blogs,...
Mom Guilt
Around 2 years ago, I can remember having a conversation with a friend about how I wasn’t going to be “one of those Moms” that felt...
Resolutions: It’s the Final Countdown!
At Amy Wine Counseling, our team is always looking for ways to increase our client’s success. Our job is not to create goals for you, but...
The Platinum Rule
Be careful who you ask to define the Golden Rule. You might hear, “The person with the gold makes the rules!”. Any smart husband or wife...
Can Play Be Therapy?
The practice of play therapy dates back to the early 1900’s. Almost every theoretical orientation such as Adlerian, Jungian, Gestalt,...
What Can Christmas Teach Us?
Well folks, ‘tis the season to be jolly! Of course, life is hard, and we may have had our share of troubles throughout the year, but the...
Your Best Self
Self-care in a time like this is so needed. During the holidays, I constantly watch people get angry over necessary—and sometimes...
Surviving Holiday FAQs
The holidays are really great. It’s an opportunity to get together with friends and family you haven’t seen in a while, indulge in some...
The Unwelcomed Holiday Guest
Is there a time of year that is more food focused than the November/December holiday season? The amount of food and diet talk that pops...
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