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How Early Life Trauma Shapes Us – And How We Can Heal
We all carry pieces of our past with us. For some people, those pieces are light and warm, shaping happy memories and a sense of “I’m...


Why Your Story Matters: The Role of Family of Origin and Attachment in Trauma Therapy
When we begin therapy, we often want to focus on what's happening right now — the anxiety, the relationship struggles, the patterns...


Called to Counseling
A Calling I Never Expected When I lost my job in June of 2017, I was feeling discouraged and disoriented. My career up until that point...


Let's Get Factual!
“He’s such a narcissist.” “Stop gaslighting me.” “That triggered me.” “I’m OCD.” “She’s bipolar.” In recent years, conversations around...


Finding Your Community
Where do you even find friends as an adult? When we are younger, we are more likely to have opportunities to form friendships. This is...


Why Body Image Matters for Kids and Teens
For many kids and teens, body image isn’t just about how they look but also about how they feel about themselves. When a child develops a...


Misconceptions & Feeling Misunderstood
For those of us with ADHD, there is often this all-too-familiar experience of feeling misunderstood by others. Sometimes, “others” are...


Attachment Styles
As a child, I never thought about the connections I had with others and how I showed up in relationships. I had never analyzed the...


When Asking "What If" Makes Grief Even Harder
“What if I had called one more time just to check in? What if he didn’t know how loved he was before he died? What if she would not have...


Women's Mental Health
Mental health as a whole is a largely discussed topic at this current moment in time. We have come a long way in how we view mental...


Making Self-Care a Priority
Most of us know that self-care is important. We try to make it happen but it seems like we never have the time. Between working, raising...


20 Economical Ways To Spend Time With Your Partner
Couples tend to think they cannot find the time to go on dates with their partner. When we fall into the routine of everyday living, we...


Movies and Mental Health
One of the best ways to relax and unwind at the end of a long day is by watching a movie. Movies create a myriad of emotions for people....


People are not beyond repair. Neither are relationships.
If you are like a lot of people, you may hear a song that describes the holidays as “the most wonderful time of year” and immediately...


Self-Care During the Holidays
The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness. However, admits the hustle and bustle it is crucial not to negate...


Are They Gaslighting or Being Defensive?
The term, ‘gaslighting’ has been tossed around a lot on the internet lately, to the point where I wonder if people know what it actually...


Social Media Apps or Anxiety-Inducing Traps?
Let’s be real – screens and social media are pretty much part of our everyday lives now. Screens are a big part of how we work, play, and...


Low Self-Esteem in the Age of Social Media
By now, the majority of the world’s population has been impacted by social media in one way or another. Whether you yourself are on one...


Acceptance: The Unnatural Posture Toward Natural Disasters
Here in the Houston area, we are no strangers to natural disasters. Over the past decade alone, there were the Memorial Day floods...


A Beryl of Emotions
Imagine this: It’s roughly 85 degrees Fahrenheit at night. There is no breeze. The power is out. Your food is slowly rotting away in the...
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